I have also had various family members overstay visas for very long periods of time and they weren't dirt poor. On the other hand, this kind of hiding in plain sight is hell when kids turn 18 and can't attend a university. That's the most sad part of the existence and a big reason for support of the DREAM act.
I know a large number of people in the tech industry with questionable immigration status.
Please, don't get offended. I'm not a heavy user here and I don't have permission to downvote posts.
https://www.google.com/search?q=deportation&espv=2&biw=1600&...
I think the purpose of all this discussion was whether OP should come to the States and work under the radar, and the general consensus is that being here illegally strongly caps your upside, and has a pretty uncertain downside.
PS - My friend's now the chief engineer of a successful business in London... I always thought it was such a shame for a guy who worked his way from being an orphan on a farm in Kenya to live 90% of the American Dream, only to be kicked out of the country after putting in his all at Stanford and at a few startups.
http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2011/may/07/experien...