When I was a below average student, I used to have a lot less stress. The expectation was so much lower.
Once I started getting As across the board I started panicking.
The problem is we have essentially "privatized" learning.
What that means is once we started attaching money to learning via the university industrial complex and cheap credit. Your knowledge became a store of wealth like your house ( which itself is a terrible idea ).
Now their is a pervasive attitude - if you study engineering for example you pay 4X for tuition compared to humanities.
If you get As you get to go to Stanford and be 10X in debt as someone who went to a Community College.
It reminds me of the argument by Louise CK, where loans are much easier to get when you have liquidity already.
This has lead to a situation of "Too smart to fail" among students who get good grades, when in reality we should be allocating more education resources to weaker students in society and handing them the most credit, and not celebrate grades so heavily, but celebrate when that education leads to value in society.