a) You ask for somebody to marry you (your words) but don't tell anything about yourself.
b) You don't present a single hint of your ideas but ask what your potential significant other can offer (to stick to your metaphor).
c) Every "exceptional programmer" is good at analysis - my analysis of your post lead to a) and b).
Edit: By no means I want to deter you from pursuing your goal, I'm really just trying to give useful feedback wrt your post.