I'm not sure I understand. Was using a proportional font changing the way you chose to format the code to such a degree that it annoyed people?
More examples: http://mysite.verizon.net/astronaut/vim/align.html#Examples
Of course, I really hope nobody's coding like that. I've never seen anyone who's been able to maintain that kind of formatting consistently.
I don't see any reason why proportional fonts shouldn't work for most programming styles. The problem is that most existing proportional fonts aren't very well suited for programming. At the very least, you need a font with unambiguous shapes for similar glyphs, like 1lI0oO`',.;:
See, for an example implementation, BlackBox Component Pascal - Windows only, but runs moderately well under Wine.