i use infant mortality as an objective measure of any society's success. that's because everyone in the world can agree that dead babies are a bad thing. and the data is objective and easy to measure. it is, in a sense, a better indicator than GDP. the recent example of China is probably the best example of this. For decades after the cultural revolution, China was able to decrease infant mortality, without similar increase in GDP per capita (which came later).
And most importantly, it measures the velocity at which these things occur.
Isn't a society that can allow itself better alcohol, expensive medicine, better weapons, has more liquid cash, pays more in brutality suits (and pays them at all, to this matter), and spends more on daycare objectivelly better and more well-off than a society that doesn't have these things?