Point 1 is why I think Apple Pay & others will be more of a niche - until the terminals become common, you can't rely on them, but once they are common, contactless cards become just as useful.
I used to be skeptical of contactless cards because of the lack of 2-factor. I thought it would be a liability (if my wallet gets stolen, now the thief can use my cards). However, the UK banks are quite vocal about promising to repay you if this happens. I've never had to put this to the test, luckily.
Also, there is still an element of 2-factor auth. Occasionally, contactless will ask for a PIN confirmation (perhaps random, or perhaps if the bank thinks the payment seems odd). A new card of mine refused to work until I had made at least one PIN payment with it, for instance.
Finally, there are low contactless payment limits - £30 right now. But these have been steadily rising as banks become more confident with their fraud systems. So, it seems that the payment industry is happy with the system.