I cut back my hours and quit my job because I have so much to do so, what the hell society, where's my compensation?
I cut back my hours and quit my job because I have so much to do so, what the hell society, where's my compensation?
Better arguments: it's a safety net no one can fall through, it's simpler and less demeaning than the existing system, and unemployed people are always better off when they take low-paid or part-time work.
I have not decided whether or not I support a basic income, but I do think that people, who take care for elderly relatives should get paid some reasonable fraction of the costs that the state would have to pay anyway. If these elderly people do have the funds to care for themselves, I think they should be responsible to pay this fraction, before the state has to do it.
With children it is a bit more complicated, because a society generally benefits if people of higher education reproduce, which generally have a higher threshold to do so because of financial incentives. Also you decide to have children, because you want to have children. You do not decide to have parents who need care.
If there is anything "selfish" going on, it is "sex feels good, so I am going to get laid, and the consequences be damned." I have met damn few people who were able to have exactly as many kids as they wanted, exactly when they wanted them. The vast majority of the time, kids seem to fall into one of two categories: 1) "Oops" or 2) "We tried for this one forever."
The falling birth rates following falling death rates is a global trend in my lifetime. Limiting kids to keep you out of poverty and keep you middle class is an observation that goes back at least a few hundred years in Europe. The "most kids are a case of Oops or We tried forever" is personal observation of discussions I have had with people: Any time you get the back story, it is typically one of those situations (tbf, my second child was a case of "we skipped birth control 2 or 3 times" -- which almost felt like an Oops because I was surrounded by people talking about how very long it took them to get child 2 or their latest).
Does that help clarify any?