I'm thinking the receiving end. I would expect a sense of relief in the person doing the breaking and not the lingering effects.
You don't want to lose a friend but it is in your best interests to do it.
I'm human and 45, I'm really not surprised, but I'll play the odds on who did what to whom.
[edit: this is true for all sexes but I guess the unkind reader will think beautiful doesn't apply to guys]