That is only the case if you set the telemetry settings to "Full".
It's on by default on all other versions.
Even if the US government were entirely trustworthy, other governments are not. Does Microsoft really want to be put in the position where they either have to face sanctions or turn over the data of somebody whose big crime is being the opponent of somebody powerful?
I look at patching almost like a public health issue. Vaccinations are important because they protect you and the people around you. Likewise, secure machines connected to the internet are good for the owner and everybody else on the internet.
I get what you are saying, but I think the forced patches on consumer machines is at least arguable. The forced collection of data seems less defensible to me.