My own question would be, why are you reading negative meanings into my words when positive meanings for the same context are available?

I'm 43. While this is no excuse, I suppose, I grew up in a time that was not as ridiculously P.C. as it is now. I find myself increasingly surrounded by this sort of sensitivity to any (even joking) conventionally-male analogies used when dating. I'm also a US Veteran and a member of a fraternity, two bastions of male-centrist worldview.

But also, just to be clear... Disgust is a non-argument. :P

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wisdom_of_repugnance