My opinion is based on having absolutely no experience in home buying while making the greatest attempt possible to be optimistic about my future in the Bay Area.
$200K a year works out at around $11K/month after tax.
15% on a $1.2M home is $180K - even by your estimations that's 6-18 years savings.
So a $1.02M loan over 30 years... 1.1% property tax, 0.5% PMI, 4% interest...
You're looking at a $6,000 mortgage payment (www.mortgagecalculator.org).
Yes, frugal living says you could manage that at 200K.
Your mortgage originator is not even remotely, no matter how convincing you are, going to underwrite a loan with a mortgage payment of 55% of your after tax income.
At 130K, no. That's 85% of your paycheck going to mortgage.
Not in 2016 at least.