We have 3 types of facts.
1. What is the set of prior theories? Probability theory says this should matter. Bayesians are explicit about its involvement. Frequentists ignore it.
2. Observed data. Probability theory says that this should matter. Everyone takes this into account.
3. Experimental design for what would have happened had something different than the observed actually happened. This matters a lot to frequentist approaches and does not matter at all to Bayes' theorem. Bayesian approaches generally do not care about it at all.
The difference between scenario 1 and scenario 2 is a fact of type 3, the conditions under which Bill and Lorena would have stopped having children. Unless you believe that Bill and Lorena's desire for one gender has a material impact on the probability of boys vs girls, this fact is irrelevant to any calculation of posterior probabilities. And is irrelevant in classical Bayesian approaches.
Yet, despite being irrelevant, it matters a lot for frequentist approaches.