I saw this comment because I read all of DannyBee's comments, because they are frequently pretty great. That's a big part of how I read HN.
Another person I read religious is 'dang, whose comments are the informal moderator log of HN.
And why I'm saying this to you is, pretty much everyone that gets called out for incivility on HN deploys the argument you just did: "my incivility was justified by the comment that preceded it".
I'm not persuaded.
You asked!