In what ways is the BSD networking stack superior?
Whether one or the other is truly better though might be irrelevant...either is such a monumental improvement over the windows networking stack that there are bound to be large benefits.
Edit: See for example why VMWare bought Nicira: http://techcrunch.com/2012/07/23/vmware-buys-nicira-for-1-26...
I promise this isn't a question to try to make a point, I'm genuinely interested.