Being able to choose one's outward gender and race appearance in public reminds me distinctly of the Steiner adage "On the Internet, nobody knows if you're a dog."
One of my friend's online acquaintances that was a Japanese girl living in Canada. Then one day she forgot to turn her voice modulator on, turns out the her was a him. My friend had known this person for several years.
That's really interesting -- how did it resolve? Did they stay friends?
Nope, the guy cut contact w/ my friend and all the mutual people with whom they played. Most of those people were my friends real life friends.