Attitudes like the one you express here, at once critical of women who raise issues of inequality and misogyny, and skeptical that a woman who wants camaraderie with others in their cohort is For Real, are exactly the reason that would drive a woman to seek out that type of environment.

If you'd be interested in learning more about the importance of empowering and accepting spaces for women in tech, and the reality of the misogyny they experience, I'd be happy to discuss further or share some links.