FYI, 25gbps ethernet is gaining in popularity much quicker than 40gbps ethernet. Mostly from cloud/scale-out stuff.
For an example, take a look at Mellanox's cable page which lists a large number of combinations of connectors and cable types.
So in general, to call a random sfp cable/port an ethernet port would be confusing unless both parties already knew it was passing ethernet traffic.
The actual connector and cable are mostly independent of each other. The most common connector for an ethernet cable is RJ-45 (what you're referring to as "ethernet ports"). But it's just as possible to have SFP, coaxial, or USB even.