There is absolutely no truth to the assertion that the haskell.org management
hasn't played fair or listened and responded to suggestions from the
community. These allegations are FUD spread by people who can't seem to be
bothered by the realities of large organizations balancing many competing concerns.
As near as I can tell these allegations are primarily referring to a pull request by
Michael Snoyman [1] that completely removed four existing sections from the
haskell.org download page and replaced them with a link to a tool only a few
months old written mostly by Michael and others at FP Complete. I think any
reasonable person would agree that a pull request like this to a language's
official website is completely ridiculous and should definitely not be
accepted. In fact, Gershom & co have proven very reasonable because they did
eventually add stack to the downloads page [2] after it had more time to
mature and became more widely used.
Furthermore, Chris Done (an employee of FP Complete who is also associated
with this new website) made the underhanded move of revoking his permission [3] for haskell.org to use the
web design that he contributed under a BSD license [4].
These are just two examples of a pattern of what I think is pretty lousy behavior on the part of
key players in FP Complete that should be taken into account when listening to
their rhetoric.
Regarding their point about /r/haskell being full of flamewars, from what I've
seen the only flamewars there are ones involving the above mentioned people from FP Complete and they are usually the ones doing the flaming.
[1] https://github.com/haskell-infra/hl/pull/130/files
[2] https://www.haskell.org/downloads
[3] https://mail.haskell.org/pipermail/haskell-community/2016-Ap...
[4] https://github.com/haskell-infra/hl/blob/master/LICENSE