I think the more interesting thought experiment is if there is a correlation there. A lot of women leave this industry because the people in power tend, on average, to have limited emotional intelligence and lack the nuanced viewpoints of maturity, and that they perpetuate those power structures on to others with those same limitations, so you have stasis.
The bigger question, then is, how would databases and programming languages look if we had more people with complex and nuanced emotional frames, who can collaborate and hold ambiguity? I think the answer is very compelling. These lost years (30 - 40 years) might not have had to be lost at all. Sadly, we'll never know.