Dressing for nerds
nerdboyfriend.com
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As for clothes: Pick up a copy of David Kibbe's "Metamorphosis". Learn what clothing shapes, patterns (stripes, polka dots, etc) and colors work best for you. Get a good hair cut for your hair type and face shape. If you have any health issues, work on those. Healthy people look better, regardless of what they wear. Once you have some idea of the shapes, colors, etc you need to focus on, try on lots and lots of clothes but only buy those things that are both very comfortable to wear and are also flattering. (With practice, it gets easier to shop once you know what works for you. You can eliminate most clothes in the store without trying them on once you have this knowledge.) If you are physically comfortable in your clothes, it helps you pull off a sense of "style" in the eyes of others. Elegance is not just about the clothes you wear but about how you move and that is enhanced by being physically comfortable. If you have self image issues negatively impacting your clothing choices, the best solution to that is probably having a positive intimate relationship with the right person so you Get Over It.
If you want to learn about power dressing, there is only one book that I know of which is based on actual research into what works: "Dress for Success" by John T. Malloy. It's apparently been updated a few times. Searching for it on Amazon brings up "New Women's Dress for Success".
I've read a lot of clothing books over the years. A lot of them don't have much value. If you want good results without investing a lot of time and effort into it, those two books are must haves and most of the rest can be ignored.
Honestly, I can't stand shopping for clothing, you can waste an entire day and not find anything that's "both very comfortable to wear and [...] also flattering" and making people take you seriously.
With regards to comfort: For me, cotton, nylon, and silk are good materials. I am okay with rayon. I avoid polyester like the plague, which is hard because so many things are a cotton-polyester blend. I wear a lot of knits, something men generally can't get away with for a business look but something I find is wonderful in terms of comfort and a woman can it wear to work. I'm just careful to get the right weight of knit material that works for me/my look. That will differ from person to person.
I don't get your remark about making people take you seriously. Do you mean the sales people?
On the other hand, my 22 year old son gets misread as being a lot younger than he is and he doesn't hesitate to take advantage of such assumptions. Just tossing that out there as food for thought: Maybe it isn't only a problem. Maybe there is also an opportunity in there.
Thanks.
I happen to like both clothes and nerds. I had wildly dumb hopes that this would be something good and lead to meaningful discussion. :-D
Apparently not.
I suspect it is mostly interesting for fashion-nerds who appreciate the detective works gone into finding what kind of shirt John Huston is wearing on that particular picture taken 40 years ago. It is probably not that useful as a general guide to fashion and for dressing sharp, since it is clearly the personalities that makes the clothing items cool, not the other way around.
It may be pointless for people who aren't obsessed with style, but I don't think the site is poking fun of anyone.
I actually like "fashion" (dressing well), but my personal relationship to the topic has changed a lot over the years. I still find the topic fascinating and I still exercise my skills in that regard, but to a somewhat different end these days.