Years later, I asked my bully why he stopped picking on me, and I will never, ever forget his exact words. "You got big." It wasn't some realization that he was an asshole, or that I was hurting... Just that I might hurt him back.

Their conscience is so warped that it doesn't matter what you say to them, the only way to get them to change is to hurt them back. And that's sad for so many reasons.

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