OO thinking optimizes for the less ideal cases that are far more common. Ideal FP has this ideal mathematical view of the world that rarely pans out in practice, while less ideal FP just resorts to OO-style metaphors and abstraction in practice. For the kinds of experiences I work on (heavily reactive, lots of state, complex interactions), this works well for me, and we are developing techniques to make it less painful (live programming). "Worse is better", as RPG would say.