The OP is talking about 'workplace abuse' which has a specific definition which, even in its less extreme forms, is much worse than being asked to keep timesheets.
But bandying around words like 'abuse' based on those likes and dislikes is akin to crying wolf when you see a pussy cat. It devalues its meaning for those cases where people are genuinely suffering and need help.
However, English isn't a programming language.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rYT0YvQ3hs
By devaluing the word, when we hear people talking about 'abuse' we will assume they're just whinging.