The problem is not with the spirit under which that clause was added to the company's bylaws--the problem is the knee-jerk reaction by which they halted any discussion of sales (and didn't try to find a solution that worked), whether or not the proposed sale actually had a material effect on the cap table. Not to mention that ROFRs exist to eliminate cap table problems altogether.
Employees are unaware of these "veto" clauses, and continuing to hide them is acting in bad faith. But of course companies don't want employees to be aware of these clauses--it would become crystal clear how absolutely worthless equity is for the vast majority of employees at startups (even at Valley darlings like Gusto).