> ...and it's simple to disconnect and reconnect yourself with 2 or 3 wires.
This "sort of" works for now, depending on where you live, what season, whether or not you keep junked tech, etc. But it strikes me, not only as dismissive and condescending, but also particularly short-sighted.
I can imagine, 20 or 30 years ago, someone saying something similar about a car: "a bug in your ECU is keeping your car from starting? That's your problem for having bought a car running off of a computer!" Fast-forward to today. It simply isn't possible to buy a car without an ECU.
The thing is, the changes that brought ECUs to cars are exactly the kinds of changes that are bringing computers into thermostats. In a surprisingly short amount of time, we're going to be living in a world where it simply isn't possible for most people to find a thermostat without a computer.
When people feel their agency and autonomy is being compromised with new technology, a common sentiment to echo in the tech world is "if you don't like it, don't use it". But the plain fact of the matter is that in many cases, IoT being an emergent but prototypical example, non-participation simply isn't an option.