I'm fully on board with you...I think Scalaz as a library is a virus, and it's community is toxic, and it's desperate desire to turn Scala into Haskell ends up turning an awesome ML-inspired language into a vastly inferior religious (...ahem, pure) language.
But Cats and Shapeless aren't Scalaz. They have concepts that happen to exist in Haskell, but they aren't Haskell's concepts to own any more than C owns imperative programming. If anything, Mathematics owns the concepts and Haskell happened to borrow them to make a terrible purist concept slightly more practical. It turns out that when you need the concepts (and I have, on a couple of occasions), it makes Scala slightly more practical as well.