Right but it's a terrible analogy for this discussion, it literally does 'control women' by forcing them to carry a baby for 9 months.

How is forcing someone to do something they dont want to do, not 'controlling'?

Whether that is there motivation or not is up for discussion, but it explicitly does control women.

Whether the motivation for the hijab is to control women could also be debated, but that is beside the point that it /does/ control women.

Whether there is another life in the balance also does not change the fact that it explicitly controls a woman's body.

I'm not taking a stance here on whether abortion should be legal or whether it represents a homicide of some kind, im simply stating that it does in fact control a womans body, regardless of the intent.