I've been thinking about it lately with regard to Trump's talk of isolationism and withdrawal from NATO and whatnot. There are predictions that Russia will annex more Eastern European states, but at some level if the state can't protect itself what business does it have being considered one? That's kind of the only real obligation or definition of the state.
Those countries are currently protected by the US, so they are currently filling that obligation, but I'm not sure I see why it's in my interest as an American to enforce this arbitrary political line. We don't have much cultural history or overlap with them. It seems in their and the rest of Europe's best interest to band together through treaties to protect themselves.
I know this comes across as "might makes right", which I don't agree with at the local level, but at the sovereign level I'm beginning to think that's all that matters.
Lichtenstein and the Vatican have contracts with other nations, effectively "renting" their protection.
You don't need a standing army, but having military protection of some kind is vital to maintaining your sovereignty.
All that aside, the only real way to have a nation is to have other nations acknowledge its existence. Good luck claiming sovereignty when not a single member of the UN is willing to say you exist.
I always think of Taiwan / Republic of China.
While most countries don't officially acknowledge it (and, slightly amusingly, Taiwan doesn't officially acknowledge communist China), it is without a doubt its own country with its own military and democratic government, etc.
But yeah the only reason is that there is water between China and Taiwan and China never bothered to attack.