The easier, hacker way is to intercept the traffic with a proxy: https://medium.com/@edwardbenson/how-i-hacked-amazon-s-5-wif...
How do they know for sure? Perhaps they also connect every month for a (status) update or for statistics, but this hacker just missed that.
I wouldn't use these buttons to launch any missiles :)
Actually, here's a guide: https://learn.adafruit.com/dash-hacking-bare-metal-stm32-pro...