Do you despise all people living in the place you live now?
Take this lightly, but I bet you can find at least one more person that "despises" your place and you can discuss that with them. :)
Take this lightly, but I bet you can find at least one more person that "despises" your place and you can discuss that with them. :)
Not sure if that is good or bad.
Very different, oposing views and values can break a relationship. Very similar views cannot make them - only if this similarity leads to continuous contact.
My friends come from: childhood neighboors, two student organizations I was part of and college soccer team. Each of these environments allowed for years long contact with the same people. And from that came friendships. Not from similar anything.
Friendships are born from tedious hours of boring conversation with random people that only happened because no one there had nothing else better to do.
That comfortable feeling of having a meaningful relationship only comes years after that.
If you live in a community too small to have a meetup, make one yourself and see if anyone attends. I did it, fully expecting not a single person to show up. I met so many people through that, starting in a community of under 70,000 people.