Also, if you have to do this more than once then just fire the guy.
I agree, never take abuse from anybody.
OP said: "looked at you and very directly said in a very loud and stern voice"
Your edit: "screaming at someone, swearing and calling them out in front of their peers"
If you're a madman tyrant asshole and your product is OnLive[1], you're just a madman tyrant asshole with a failed product because you didn't realize that your company's problems are far outside your scope of control.
If you're a madman tyrant asshole and your product instantly destroys two of the only three major smartphone OSes on the market at the time, you're Steve Jobs.
[1](I'm just picking on them as a failed startup, I have no idea what their CEO's management style was.)
Jobs' legacy on the behaviour of so many future companies will be an interesting one, because some people only looked at that one side, and ran with it.
I'm not saying Jobs was not smart - but chance and luck was a huge factor in his successes. He wouldn't have had his come-back had Apple bought BeOS rather than Next.
And he would sometimes defer to people he trusted even if they diametrically disagreed with him. He _really_ didn't want to do an App Store and wasn't ever convinced it was a good idea until it was launched, but he saw that Forstall wasn't going to give up on the idea so he relented.
PS. Yes, I know that Forstall left Apple after Jobs' death but Jobs and Ive pretty much saw eye to eye on the design of Apple products. (Edit: Removed "Steve famously hated skeumorphism.")
One example is the iPad Contacts app. Originally it was a simple list of contacts like you'd find in Outlook. This was changed to the "little address book" UI that looked like a leather-bound address book much later in the process because the original UI wasn't "fun" enough.
(Unfortunately, I think they fired the guy who, among all of them, was the most like Jobs, and I think Apple has suffered as a result.)
To say that he was fired for skeumorphism is insane. Jobs was responsible for that stuff.
[1] http://www.businessinsider.com/tim-cook-why-i-fired-scott-fo...
Apparently the iCal stitching was copied from leather seats on Jobs' private jet! You couldn't make this stuff up[1].
1. http://www.cultofmac.com/189707/steve-jobs-himself-is-respon...
Dave Wiskus: According to legend, it was the exact leather and stitching on his private jet.
This "my way or the highway" attitude is how companies turn into shitty little fiefdoms filled with incompetent losers lorded over by a bunch of goons.