There are plenty of people that can mentor but they may not be in a position to fund for a variety of reasons (for instance not being an 'accredited investor'). Like this you could actually hire them to give their advice, rather then to come to them for both money and advice, as well as a network.
So kickstarter may very well spell the end of the incubator, but via a completely different route.
Companies like YC thrive on the scarcity of the combination of people with the money to invest and the time to mentor.
If Diaspora fails the model will likely collapse though, they're a poster child for this model now, they had better succeed or die (figuratively speaking of course) trying.
No going back for them.
edit: and don't underestimate the power of being 'YC funded' for follow up rounds.