Can you be more specific? I don't mind the accusation, but peope on the internet™ have often different expectations of what a software should or should not do. There is no such thing as the perfect product™. It is all about tradeoffs.
So you tell them to go use Disqus if they need Gravator since they're basically stating they don't care about anti-tracking.
You then also state that someone else should do the work of integrating with Libravator.
It reads a bit gruff and asshole-ish.
On the other hand, TANSTAAFL and either someone should pay you or do the work to do the Libravator integration, and it does seem very odd to pick up Isso and then want to use an avatar service that also does tracking.
Presumably those people hate Disqus for other reasons, but it certainly doesn't have to be your concern.
I'd probably write the same kind of tone in a FAQ entry as well, because if its being given away for free then the flip side is that users on the internet shouldn't be demanding assholes and want things for free that you have zero interest in providing for free, and I think you make your position reasonably clear.
shrug.