The vast majority of startups choose door #3, which requires that they raise from "accredited investors." There are a few ways to hit the sophistication bar; the most commonly invoked are an asset test (~$1 million in net worth exclusive of positive home equity) or an income test ($250k in income for 2 years with expectation of same in the future).
This makes many normal people in the tech industry and in the professions (doctors, lawyers) into accredited investors, but excludes much of the middle class.
Reasonable people can disagree on whether this is good policy, but it is more-or-less the law in the US. There are recently some exceptions due to the crowdfunding law, but they're as-of-yet outside of the startup mainstream.
Accredited investors can't necessarily get into any particular deal; the most desirable companies quickly fill up, and since Snap was a fairly desirable company, the fact that an investor convinced their co-investors to sacrifice allocation in favor of getting a favored charity involved was basically a charitable donation all around. Accredited investors can generally find a company willing to take their money, but most investments in startups do not go well, even when the startups are executed competently. (This is the reason we have laws preventing e.g. 40 year old teachers from taking out a HELOC to put $100k into photo sharing for dogs.)
Also, can you honestly say that you would have put $15k in Snapchat 5 years ago?
It's pretty hard to outdo investing in the S&P 500, and most anyone can do it.
> Pretty lucky, right? But then someone pointed out that if he'd invested in the S&P 500 instead, it would be worth $25,000 today (if I remember the figures correctly).
What's not said is that from 1960 till 1980, you'd only make 200% (10% annualized). Compared to angel investing giving you 250% over 4 years (62.5 annualized).[1]
This is also assuming you know how to time your trades properly and get in at a bottom. If you got in at the floor of the dot com crash you'd make, at most, 180% in the 15 years you held (12% annualized). If you got in at the floor of the 07-09 crash you'd make, at most, 250% in the 9 years you held (28% annualized). These are best case scenarios and it's unlikely for someone that believes in the S&P will know about market timing.
The base of this argument is laden with guilt and regret over not having 20/20 hindsight. "If you got in at X you would have Y." The same is said with BTC, "if you got in at the beginning you would have been an Xillionaire!"
However, this is no longer practical in the ironed-out, risk-adjusted world we live in now. The S&P's risk has been priced in and over-sized returns are no longer possible. You'll start seeing this with startups in the coming years too. As people start understanding them more, risk will be lower, and thus returns will be lower.
[0] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=li0mRLcGbU8
[1] https://techcrunch.com/2012/10/13/angel-investors-make-2-5x-...
If you're willing to accept more risk/return than the S&P 500, there are Nasdaq index funds, too.
To play with various scenarios, there's a calculator:
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