Agreed. If you dilute a single employee's equity by any amount, you do not deserve to have that employee. Period.
To the point where the risk and reward involved make it a losing proposition. As a rule of thumb, I anticipate the value of employee options to diminish by an order of magnitude between the angel round and IPO/sale. This would make an initial stake of 0.5% in a company that sells for 100 million dollars to be worth $50,000, before taxes.