Thanks for posting the link. I'll take that as a sign that you're open to some feedback and pursuing this conversation…
(First, as a bit of background, I'm a cofounder of Svpply, a fashion/aspirational-consumerist startup from about seven years ago. I've spent a lifetime thinking about why things like Lot 2046 are catnip to some folks and repellent to others. You can guess which side of the divide I fall on.)
The clothes people wear (and, to a just barely less obvious extension, all purchases people make) reinforce identity. The quick and easy stereotype is that people who buy expensive clothes are snobs; I would proffer a more generous depiction, that they are people who love beauty and want to be part of a beautiful world.
What most people miss (and I'm referring to both the beautiful people and their critics) is that folks on the opposite end of the spectrum are also engaging in reinforcement of identity. This thread is full of people talking about Hanes and Gilden t-shirts. They are projecting an identity of down-to-earth pragmatism. They are every bit as engaged in a game of ego and showmanship as that douchebag who stepped out of a GQ photoshoot. Normals and slobs spend way, way more time looking down on fashionistas than vice versa.
All consumption is conspicuous. Repeat that a few times. All consumption is conspicuous.
Lot 2046 is threading the needle of an of the hacker genius startup design savant. The punk cowboy of Neuromancer, the startup founder credo of decision fatigue, and the clean white workspace of Jonny Ives. The appeal of Lot 2046 is specific but deep.
Now I'm looking at your site. The physical goods that you're selling are pretty great! The experience and identity that you're selling is nonexistent.
Just take a look at the wrapper of the “Tokuno Milk”, or ponder the name “Hi-Chew” (I stuff my sister’s kid's stockings full of this kind of stuff every xmas, by the way). These candies are tasty and exotic and weird! And when I indulge in this kind of thing, I'm incidentally reinforcing a self-image of being a person with exotic and fun tastes. When I share these kinds of things, I'm giving the gift of exposure (there is fun weird shit that you can enjoy too), and also projecting that I am a gateway to fun, exotic, weird things.
I don't mean to give you the impression that this is the POINT of enjoying those things. The point of good food and good clothes is that they are good and beautiful and fun. But again, all consumption is conspicuous.
Another way of thinking of this is, why does every product you carry come in the wrapper that it's in? Now extend that to the space the item is sold (in this case, your site). Then look at the product Lot 2046 is selling, and how the store selling that product extends that identity.
The difference between Lot 2046 and Supercandyshop is that he understands his target demographic's subconscious aspirational identity, and you don't. All you're selling right now is a product. I can get products anywhere.
You need to target yourself somewhere between Lot2046, https://www.lootcrate.com, and Sanrio.