Honestly: The other points are not better if your intention was to make grpc look worse than other HTTP based APIs:
- For all of them you need to know the remote addresses (IP/hostname, port) upfront or use an external service discovery solution.
- For both you can implement some service introspection, which delivers you a list of available services/methods. Afaik for grpc there even exists some standardized introspection mechanism. For other HTTP APIs you might want to download some swagger description from a well-known address. Or WSDL scheme. Or GraphQL schema.
- Standards on which layer? On transport layer you are following the HTTP standard, independent of whether you are using grpc, GraphQL, json-rpc or some handmade REST API. On application layer you are mostly on your own anyway, there's not a lot things one could standardize. There are some exceptions, like the standardization of Webdav on top of HTTP, but most applications have their own specific set of requirements. If we are talking about standardization without meaning offical-standardization, then we can argue that grpc provides a more rigid (standardized) model for an application than the definition of some ad-hoc APIs: It is standardized how APIs and exchanged data types are defined (.proto files), how they can be accessed and how data is transferred over the wire (mapping to HTTP). All of that without the application developers on both sides needing to care for it.