This is a double-edged sword. The increased capabilities of my laptop and smartphone (having human-friendly input and output) are what makes upgrading them so easy. The simplicity of a lightbulb, lacking a monitor and keyboard, is what makes updating it relatively difficult for a non-technical person, and this is on top of Cloudflare's fair (IMHO) opinion that consumers also don't even think to update such an apparently simple device.
I agree with you, of course, that IoT security should work better outside of the consumer's hands entirely, but I think Cloudflare has targeted an existing market opportunity fairly well with this announcement.
I have a suspicion though, that any vendor who cares enough to use this new service will also likely be better at security than other IoT vendors anyway. At that level, I can't criticise such a defense-in-depth approach, but if Cloudflare ever stops operating, it won't be pretty.