+1, I couldn't even finish reading. The scary part is the consistent fear of "raising" that behavior; that somehow it's your fault. It would be very hard to live with that idea.
They made it clear that parenting doesn't matter for these cases as far as they can tell, they focused on a juvenile treatment facility in the main part, not the family in the introductory paragraphs, and the facility tries to mold behavior with high reward/low punishment system ( with the juveniles behind bars to protect everyone else )
A professional could tell me it wasn't my fault over and over again; but it'd honestly take years (at least) to get over that fact. That's just something I'd be hard to un-program from myself.