Why on earth would you choose to work and get paid less than you can, while you are young and capable?? I look back and wish I had worked multiple jobs when I was younger, not that I had fewer hours.
Why on earth would you choose to work and get paid less than you can, while you are young and capable?? I look back and wish I had worked multiple jobs when I was younger, not that I had fewer hours.
Paradoxically, I just read an Internet comment how your 20s should be a wild ride of backpacking, meeting people, having sex, and living a carefree life.
I don't think your effort should go into maximising work hours; that's a mistake I have made a few times in the past. You maximise the ROI on your effort by climbing the right hill [1]; and it takes some failures before you find the right one.
Downtime isn't a loss of productivity. It's when you let your subconscious do its job—making gut decisions, allowing ideas to overlap one another, omitting the non-essential. It's key for creativity, and creativity is what helps you spot opportunities.
It sounds like you're stuck in an uncomfortable loop.
What's working amazingly well in your life right now? What's not?
Double down on what is going well for you and free yourself from the obligation of maintaining the rest. You zero out your inbox, why not your stressbox?
What obligations can you walk away from to give yourself time to do what matters?
Depends on your level of comfort and future ambitions, of course, but if you live in a country with low(er) cost of living, strong social safety nets, tuition/healthcare costs minor issues, etc. then spending more of your (young) life outside of an office may be very attractive. Which is probably why part-time work is relatively popular in the Netherlands, that and strong desire for a healthy work/life balance.
(and my kids will have to earn their own college money because thats the only option, I'm not certain college will be the same thing in 15 years anyway. I will train them to be robot repairmen/women as a backup plan)