> The recipient determines how they feel about your posting, not you.
Doesn't mean they're always right.
Maybe I'm misunderstanding something but it doesn't seem like someone can be wrong about how they feel about something.
If I were somehow offended by your statement that wouldn't automatically put me in the right and you in the wrong. You can't control how I feel about what you say, but I also can't use my feelings to claim an unassailable moral high ground.
Thanks, that makes more sense to me
Or that we should even care about how the recipient feels. In many instances, how the recipient feels is completely irrelevant.
One could say, it only matters if we care how the recipient feels about our actions