The question is more about "what kind of problem do you want to have and what price are you willing to pay to solve them ?". After that, choose the tech that matches this wish.
For me the iteration speed, the ease of adding new members and the flexibility are key.
But what I discovered is that most people just code bad Python and say they have problems, just like most people write bad C/java/whatever and blame the language.
You are supposed to writte Python in a certain way, like any language, to scale.