People meet romantic partners and spouses at work all the time - are they all sexual harassers?
The true answer is: "It depends".
Not dating your coworkers is a sensible rule that some people follow and some companies may have policies around ... but a rule you have no hope in expecting to be universally adhered to. Case in point: The sheer number of (happy and unhappy) couples who met at work.
I could totally be wrong and love of his/her/their life is out there in cube H206. I'm just some person online.
At this point I just accepted that I'm gonna be lonely for the time being and am biding my time to save up money and leave the Bay. A human connection and romance just isn't worth the social cost these days.
"Don't shit where you eat" is a good rule of thumb once you realize that its not a game you can win.