You should compare Express to Sinatra, not to Rails.
Express is ridiculously easy to learn, btw. Coming from Flask (under Python), i learnt Express in 3 hours. Seriously.
> Regarding the fast/slow it's simply bull-crarp, seriously. It DOES NOT matter for 99% of us. It simply doesn't.
Speed DOES (caps, emphasis) matters for many projects, in particular the projects that will go to real-life, to get massive use by consumers/common people. However, I do agree that for prototyping, startups, or simple apps that don't demand lots of performance, the speed of development under Ruby and its tools is a very important asset.
> I don't get the hate that Ruby and Rails are getting. Really don't.
Agree with you, one shouldn't "hate" Ruby, no reason, really.