I hate talking about this because people just assume I'm lying, but... I've had normal sized condoms break on me a couple times, it's frightening. Magnums do not break on me, and fit much better, so that's what I use (the XLs are too big). I just don't fit safely in a normal sized condom, it doesn't matter one bit that I can fit them over a bottle.
In other places it might be different I know people think that Asian thing is a trope but it's not Durex reduces the width from 54 to 49mm for the Asian market which is a bitch.
That said in the west you are likely not going to be needing magnum sizes either.
The regular size is well within average girth and we'll over the average length the regular size for most brands is 18-19cm from the base ring to the tip(there are ISO standards for Condoms :)), unless you are measuring yourself from your anus you aren't likely to need anything longer than that.