"Unfair" is your word, not mine. The personal attack doesn't bother me - I've been called a paid FSB agent in the past and that was actually pretty hilarious, I'm not about to get out of sorts over something this picayune. What annoys me is the fact that it spoils your argument - of which you're still doing a disappointingly poor job in support.
If you want to say that a you think a lot of people have taken quotes tendentiously out of context, or just deliberately misrepresented Damore's statements outright, in order to support ideologically driven and tendentious counterclaims, then say so. I'm not about to disagree with you on that - in my judgment, one of the reasons our society is so badly broken these last few decades, and just barely limping along in a state where one good solid crisis could well bring it down, is because lies have gained such ubiquitous and unassailable primacy over truth.
How do you think it helps you make an argument like that, to tie it to a failing comparison between the dissimilar actions of a pair of people approaching the issue from totally disjoint perspectives and with totally dissimilar intents? More to the point, what effect do you think that has on everyone else who tries to make arguments similar to yours, but with the good sense to base them more firmly than you have done here?
I think you may not be aware of, or may not take seriously enough, that this is a situation where, because we're arguing against a strongly held and ideologically driven mainstream opinion, we each have to expect to be taken as pars pro toto by people who aren't interested in reasoned discussion toward joint identification of the most useful course of action to follow - but rather in making us out to be the most absurdly overblown, unserious, and hateful assholes they possibly can, the better to render us mute and unable to participate in public discourse. That's why "alt-right" means "Nazi" now.
When you make sloppy, shitty arguments like this, calling out personalities instead of parsing ideas and basing your statements on ad hom instead of anything that merits being taken seriously, you make life a whole lot easier for people who would like to define "we should treat people as individuals" as "secretly hates women and wishes he could still own slaves".
If you're going to continue to participate publicly in this kind of argument, from this direction, then you need to hold yourself to the highest of standards, because believe me, there are plenty of people out there who will use any deviation therefrom to paint you as every kind of monster in the world. If you can't or don't care to do that, then the best thing you can do to help advance your cause is to stop participating in public at all, because doing it as poorly as you are here hands a weapon to those who have no higher goal than to make us all regret the temerity which led us to question the prevailing orthodoxy. That weapon doesn't just work on you. It works on all of us. When you do this, you make that much higher the bar we all have to clear just to get a fair hearing in public, and for no good reason in the world. You should stop.