Says alot about HN that this reply hasn't been downvoted more.
Show me a man starting a family with a 40 year old, and I will show you a man without options.
Well, somebody's been reading his Roissy.
Assuming that women and men are the same, have the same goals, and obey the same rules is an immensely stupid mistake to make, one that could be avoided by observing the real world social dynamics, and one that only clueless feminists such as yourself make.