If this piece interests you, you should read the "subtle art of not giving a f*ck." Its a nice down to earth book about dealing with negative emotions and high expectations.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/28257707-the-subtle-art-...
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/28257707-the-subtle-art-...
[0] https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Good-Life-Ancient-Stoic/dp/1522...
As I've said, the book does re-package some millennia old ideas and adds couple of hundreds usages of the f*ck world -- because it's of highest priority to be witty for some, apparently. Hell, CBT essentially does the same -- but it doesn't feels witty as it should be, right? Witty is of utmost importance after all.
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