You have veered quite a long way off the original topic. It's plainly absurd to draw a comparison between the KGB setting a honey trap and a senior man pressuring a junior woman to have sex with him. The two have nothing to do with one another.

>the mere act of offering does factually impact your psychology and changes your cognitive biases.

Everything impacts your psychology and changes your cognitive biases. In that broad sense of the word "control", we are all "controlling" each other every day, no sex required.