(The opposite wisdom is probably grandma's ham [1]. Consider that if grandma had passed away, they might never be allowed to try cooking the whole ham.)
I quite enjoyed that blog post, btw.
Grandma's ham is a great example. It might have been some subtle trichinosis-related failure case that cutting the end off a ham reliably prevents, and it's a shame we had to lose your great-uncle Joe to find out about that. Or it might have been an issue of pan length. You can't know until you ask, so you ask if you can. If you can't ask, then sure, you do the best you can with what you have - I should like to hope there are no blind dogmatists here. But if you can ask, you'd be a fool not to.
Perhaps you just have more faith in people to behave reasonably than I do.